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I am loving one girl and she cheated me finaly, what should i do now.

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In the name of Allah, We praise Him, seek His help and ask for His forgiveness. Whoever Allah guides none can misguide, and whoever He allows to fall astray, none can guide them aright. We bear witness that there is none worthy of worship but Allah Alone, and we bear witness that Muhammad (saws) is His slave-servant and the seal of His Messengers.

Brother if you mean you were involved in the grave sin of fornication (zina) then you should immediately make taubah to your Majestic Lord and sincerely promise never to repeat this mistake ever again.

First of all you should not be meeting non-mehram women leave alone falling in love. It does not behove a believer to meet non-mehram women alone. If you saw this woman and liked her you should get your family involved and get them to honorably ask for her hand in marriage.

Both you and the girl have erred. What do you expect when the guidelines of Islam are not followed? There are no obligations in this Godless way of life lead by people nowadays. If this girl has cheated on you, you should be thankful and leave her alone and get on with your life as per the laws of the Shariah.

Whatever written of Truth and benefit is only due to Allah’s Assistance and Guidance, and whatever of error is only ones. Allah Alone Knows Best and He is the Only Source of Strength.

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